#192 - When Should Children Establish Hand Dominance?

by Jessica Hill, COTA/L & Rachel Harrington, COTA/L, AC February 23, 2022 1 Comment

#192 - When Should Children Establish Hand Dominance?

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When Should Children Establish Hand Dominance?

In today’s episode we dive into WHY we believe, and why research shows, that establishing hand dominance is vital to success with a variety of daily activities. 

We also talk about what it looks like if a child is struggling to establish hand dominance and of course, we give you our favorite tips and tricks to help! 

Stick around to the end to listen to us answer two listener questions! 

Links:

 

Introduction to Sensory Processing Disorder 1 Hour Training

Fine Motor Skills Activity Course 

Research Article on Grip Strength from PubMed

Research Article on Grip Strength from AJOT

Research Article on Handedness and Developmental Coordination Disorder

Harkla Website 

Harkla Instagram

All Things Sensory Podcast Instagram 

Left Center Right Dice Game

Right Turn Left Turn Card Game

Twister Game

Solid Starts Website 

ARK Therapeutic 

Episode 38 - Sensory + Feeding

Episode 54 - Messy Play All Day

Episode 93 - Self-Injurious Behavior with Danielle 

 

When Should Children Establish Hand Dominance?

As occupational therapy practitioners—and as parents—it’s common to see children who haven’t yet established hand dominance. Some may switch hands during handwriting or struggle with daily tasks that require coordination and strength. 

While ambidexterity might seem like a superpower, inconsistent hand dominance can actually create challenges in a child’s development. Let’s explore why hand dominance matters, how to identify concerns, and most importantly, what you can do to support your child.

What Is Hand Dominance?

Hand dominance refers to the consistent use of one hand over the other to perform fine motor tasks. Most people develop a clear preference for either the right or left hand by early childhood. 

This preferred hand becomes the “dominant” one for tasks like writing, eating, and brushing teeth, while the opposite hand supports and stabilizes.

Why Is Hand Dominance Important?

A consistent dominant hand allows children to build strength, coordination, and motor planning skills. Without this consistency, tasks like handwriting, self-feeding, and dressing can become unnecessarily difficult and frustrating.

Key Reasons To Develop Hand Dominance:

  • Improved fine motor coordination – Strengthens neural pathways for efficient motor skills.

  • Increased strength and endurance – Reduces fatigue by relying on one stronger hand.

  • Better bilateral coordination – Enhances two-handed tasks like cutting or tying shoes.
    Academic success and independence – Supports tasks at school and at home.

When Should Hand Dominance Develop?

While a hand preference can appear as early as age 2, most children develop consistent dominance between 4 and 6 years old. It’s important not to rush this process but to observe for consistency, especially as they begin writing tasks in school.

OT Insight: If a child is still switching hands frequently for writing or self-care by age 6 or 7, it’s worth discussing concerns with an occupational therapist.

Signs Your Child May Be Struggling With Hand Dominance

Infants & Toddlers

  • Rolling or crawling to one side only.

  • Neglecting one hand during play.

  • Not passing toys between hands.

  • Avoiding midline play (e.g., clapping, reaching across the body).

School-Aged Children

  • Switching hands during tasks like cutting or writing.

  • Difficulty mastering fine motor skills despite repetition.

  • Not stabilizing the paper with the opposite hand.

  • Fatigue or frustration during motor tasks.

  • Struggles with left/right awareness past age 6.

  • Avoidance of midline crossing (turning the body instead of reaching across).

What Causes Delayed Hand Dominance?

Several factors can impact how and when hand dominance develops:

  • Sensory processing challenges.

  • Weak core or shoulder stability.

  • Retained primitive reflexes (such as ATNR).

  • Limited bilateral play opportunities.

  • Neurological or developmental differences (e.g., autism, ADHD).

Activities To Encourage Hand Dominance

You can help support your child’s development with intentional, play-based activities that strengthen both sides of the body and promote dominant hand use.

1. Build Upper Body Strength

  • Animal walks (bear, crab).

  • Theraband resistance exercises.

  • Theraputty or putty games.

  • Carrying heavy objects like laundry baskets.

2. Use Bilateral Coordination Activities

  • Cutting and crafting.

  • Lacing and bead threading.

  • Tug-of-war or rope pulling.

  • Rock climbing or scooter board play.

3. Practice Midline & Crossing Activities

  • Simon Says with left/right movements.

  • Tap opposite shoulders, knees, or feet.

  • Dance routines that require arm crossovers.

  • Wall-based arrow direction games.

4. Encourage Consistent Use

  • Place tools (spoons, pencils) at midline.

  • Gently encourage completing tasks with the same hand.

  • Observe which hand is used naturally and build on that preference.

5. Play Left/Right Awareness Games

  • Twister®.

  • Directional card games.

  • DIY arrow charts.

  • “Left, Right, Center” with non-monetary items.

When To Seek Professional Help

If your child is past age 6 and still doesn’t show a clear hand preference—or is showing signs of weakness, poor coordination, or frustration—consider reaching out to an occupational therapist for an evaluation. Early support can improve confidence, independence, and academic success.

Final Thoughts

Developing hand dominance is a natural part of child development, but for some, it takes longer or requires a little extra support. With the right activities, awareness, and environment, you can help your child build strength, consistency, and confidence.

Remember, hand dominance is just one piece of the developmental puzzle. 

 

BORING, BUT NECESSARY LEGAL DISCLAIMERS

While we make every effort to share correct information, we are still learning. We will double check all of our facts but realize that medicine is a constantly changing science and art. One doctor / therapist may have a different way of doing things from another. We are simply presenting our views and opinions on how to address common sensory challenges, health related difficulties and what we have found to be beneficial that will be as evidenced based as possible. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or your children. Consult your child’s pediatrician/ therapist for any medical issues that he or she may be having. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Rachel Harrington, Harkla, Jessica Hill, or any guests or contributors to the podcast, as well as any employees, associates, or affiliates of Harkla, be responsible for damages arising from use of the podcast.

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Jessica Hill, COTA/L & Rachel Harrington, COTA/L, AC
Jessica Hill, COTA/L & Rachel Harrington, COTA/L, AC

Rachel Harrington, COTA/l, AC, CPRCS, and Jessica Hill, COTA/L, CPRCS are Harkla's in-house Certified Occupational Therapy Assistants (COTA) and Certified Primitive Reflex Clinical Specialists. They have been working with children for over 6 years in outpatient settings. They specialize in creating easy-to-digest, actionable content that families can use to help their child's progress at home. Jessica and Rachel are the in-house experts, content creators, and podcast hosts at Harkla! To learn more about Jessica and Rachel, visit the Harkla About Us Page. Make sure to listen to their weekly podcast, All Things Sensory by Harkla for actionable, fun advice on child development.


1 Response

Tenora Watt
Tenora Watt

March 01, 2022

Hey ladies really enjoy your podcast and turn others on to it all the time. I’m a COTA practicing school based OT in Hawaii. I always think that when I turn on your podcast, it’s like chatting with girlfriends.
So this episode about hand dominance, I wanted to share that ambidextrous is the ability to complete tasks at the same skill level with both right and left hands. When a person writes with one hand and then throws with the other, that is referred to as mixed dominance. I been in plenty of meetings where parents are so excited that their child uses both hand and have had to explain the differences.
Keep doing what you’re doing. You both are fabulous!
Aloha and Mahalo
Tenora

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